When people cheat do they think about the possibility of contracting an STD or HIV?
I have been cheated on and I see all sorts of posts on here about people cheating and being cheated on. Often times women are concerned about being pregnant or the man is concerned about getting someone else pregnant. This leads me to believe that there is a lot of infidelity going on without the use of protection (i.e. condom).
It’s irresponsible enough to be out cheating on your partner, but to have unprotected sex is the worst thing that could happen. Okay, so the woman says she’s on the pill or the guy says he can’t have kids. You still have to worry about diseases. Pregnancy is not the only worry here. Some people think that they can just take an antibiotic and things will clear up in 7-10 days. What about those diseases that you can’t get rid of like genital herpes and warts?
With the AIDS epidemic and all it seems like people would be scared to mess around on their spouse. Has sex really taken over people’s minds or is it that people just don’t care?
Also, after I found out that my husband cheated on me I began to carefully watch myself. I look for symptoms of an STD, etc. and I also go get check-ups and testing more frequently. You would think that you could feel safe and secure with your spouse, but you can’t. That’s why it floors me that people would go out and cheat and not use any protection with people they don’t live with and people they don’t have any medical history on.
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You are 100% correct. I couldn’t have said it better myself.
December 18th, 2009 at 9:35 amActually, I’m not sure that people who cheat even "think" at all.
I’m sorry for your situation. I’m in the same boat. I know how it hurts.
Good for you getting checked. Unfortunately it is part of our reality now even though we thought we’d never need to worry about it, right?
As far as sex taking over people’s minds…I think in this day and age the lack of morals in general has reached epidemic proportion. People should stop and think and take a look at the lives they lead and the things they think are ok. Are they really ok? Many are not. My Dad always said, "The longer you look at the dirt, the cleaner it starts to look." I think that is what has happened with morals.
If for no other reason, the consequences alone would be enough to scare me out of cheating, if I ever had such a notion (which I have not). There are so many repercussions to adultery, and they not only affect the cheater, but his/her family, friends, children, job, finances and life as a whole. No area of a cheaters life is untouched by the consequences of their actions.
Good question!
no they don’t think about it. cheating mostly involves lustful thinking, not sensible thinking.
December 18th, 2009 at 9:35 ami believe people think that bad always happens to the other guy and not them, and catching a std is not really as much on their mind as lust and the excitement of being with the new person. i don’t think people really know what they are dealing with here and tend to not think clearly when having an affair.
December 18th, 2009 at 9:35 amMs.. U couldn’t of said it any better…
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
December 18th, 2009 at 9:35 amKick your husbands ass!
December 18th, 2009 at 9:35 am